Some "bitches" want their cake and to eat it too.
The other night Julian came home from playin' some tournament poker. He does this 2 or 3 times a week. He mentioned that our friend V** had been out of town in Michigan visiting his parents. I was like oh nice. So he mentioned that V** so called girlfriend approached Julian and started chatting him up. Well, she mentioned that his mother didn't seem to like her very much and felt that she should be doing "more." Bwaa hahhaha
He asked,"like what?" She said I guess like cooking and stuff around the house. And Julian just kept listening and she went on and felt that she didn't feel that she should have to do anything more than be his "girlfriend." I laughed and laughed and laughed. And Julian said what. I said well before I go off - does the non participatory hoe work? He said yes. I said okay so they split the bills down the middle and he said yes, but so do we. I said okay. I said, "she's a lazy bitch." He laughed and said you are right. So in that nice way that Julian and his Family are he said,"...perhaps you could look at this as a learning opportunity. Maybe you could learn to make V** favourites from his Mom." She basically said NO and she had no desire to do that.
THEN...she asked where is your girl, she never comes to the bar. Julian said she doesn't like bars and when she shows up places it's only to make an appearance, but my girl is doing her own THING. So then the dumb heffa presses him and he says she's either cooking or writing or painting. And the girl got this overtly dramatic move to her neck and hand and said,"Oh Hell no...I'm just not that kind of girl" Julian said,"she isn't home barefoot and cooking. She is a chef for a living and she loves to cook and I'm not gonna stop her from doing whatever she wants to do. BUT, what she does is the bomb - so lucky me." This dumb nutgarglin' hoe looked baffled. Julian said,"Look men and women are naturally good at different things...She is good at cooking and I'm not so I pay for the groceries and carry them in the house. She washes the dishes and I put them away. She does the laundry and I put that away. She organizes the house and I clean the bathrooms and shampoo the carpets. She tracks the expenses, I give her the money and she pays bills online and sends me confirmations. The girl was like Why? He said,"because this way we are pushing together instead of pulling apart..."
Of course she didn't get it and stood her ground and actually tried to magnify some moot point that she does try to cook but he would rather eat at the bar. Maybe because you don't cook in LOVE bitch. Just coz you like that shit doesn't mean it's good enough for consumption...That's WHY your Muh'fucka cheats on your ass (and I've seen it happen). That's WHY you get treated like a roommate instead of a girlfriend. That's WHY it's 4am and you don't know where that man is. That's WHY he doesn't really give a rats ass about what you do coz he does his own shit. That's WHY he doesn't care about the home you share because it isn't one. So before your slovenly ass bags any woman who COOKS check yourself. You ain't even a penny in a dimepiece world.
Mind you...a lot of my best girls don't cook - but they hustle and they never knock anyone who DOES cook. And I cook for them as willingly as I do for Julian. So I'm not knockin' the fact that she doesn't cook I'm knockin' the fact that she's knockin' someone who does. I gots. I gots my own house, own car, own shit...buy what I want when I want to and on a level that you will never aspire to domestically much less internationally. You are a thorn in that man's side and all you are doing is payin' half the rent IF that.
She's lucky V** even introduced her to his mother coz clearly she ain't even wifey material. I told Julian - I have an A with my mother in law and you have an A+ with your mother in law and all we have to do is maintain our A's. It is far better to start off with an A than it is to start with a D. City Momma has talked to Julian about how she can't wait to have Grandbebe's...and Country Momma has talked to me about how she can't wait to have Grandbebe's. I told him my mother has never talked about that in excitement EVER EVER EVER. He said neither has his. I told him do you know what an honor that is? He said YES! I said because your Momma trusts me with the upbringing of the Grandbebe's as my Momma trusts you also. That says a lot for who we are separately and who we are together.
We are lucky - to have the maternal blessings. Of course his Pops is always sayin' how he loves his daughter in law and where is that GELATO. hahahha.
So take it how you want it.
We preserve our home on a certain level because we are building a life. We both understand that we do NOT get something for nothing and V**'s bitch like so many around expect everything for nothing. Don't ask for something you do not have...if you ain't got it then you have no right to expect it. These bitties feel they can sit on that big doughy ass and get the world just for existing. Reality Check HOE - never in the history of PIMPDOM does a hoe get something for nothing. So get under that streetlight before I unravel this hanger and teach yo' ass.