04 Jul 2008: Rubbins, Grubbins & Lubbins

Rubbins,Grubbins & Lubbins...these are the three things you can enjoy in life.

Rubbins...

Last week our brother took my sister and I for a 3 hour massage. Ahhh fabulous! I could do that every week with no problem. Seriously! The first girl was on the snotty side and even though her massage skills could be rated ebonically as "Aiight" she acted like she was hot shit. Hahaha. She gave me a deep tissue massage. The second masseuse was a man. A brother with strong hands who actually well past the 50 minutes and someone came in to tell him he was past his time - haha. (Julian later commented that he din't know if he like that type of shit - hella haha). He gave me a reflexology massage focusing on my shoulders, feet and hands. The third masseuse was also a man and gave me a hand, upper body and cranial massage. UH - Men massages are way better than women massages coz they got muscle. But that might be for those of us who like it a little stronger on the massage table. Needless to say I passed out twice and looked well rested.

However, I should not and am not complaining about a lack of massage in my life - because Julian always laughingly says to me,"Rubbins?" after a hard day. So I get a massage 4-6 times a week...

The Asian ladies have got the idea right to get facials and massages regularly - not only does it maintain your natural good looks but it also improves your demeanor which helps makes you "better looking..."

Hahahha I'm the winner.

Grubbins...

After a 3 hour massage my sister Keyla then treated us to Bobby Q...My favourite Barbecue joint in town...St. Louis Style Ribs, Baby Back Ribs, and a double order of Brisket - UH Deliscious...I tell you I eat without shame when it's barbecue - there is no sexy around the barbecue sauce.

A few days later Julian and I both had the day off. After a phone interview we met my sister and some friends at MuShu Asian Bistro Downtown!

As always it's nice to catch up with the girls...

And there's always room for Walnut Shrimp and Honey Ginger Chicken

Even when it's 110 degrees outside - hahahhaa

Lubbins...

After lunch downtown Julian and I went to catch Get Smart - I should have followed my instinct to watch Mongol at Camelback view but it's the company that counts. I must say my boyfriend is extraordinarily affectionate and hilarious - it's a strange combination but I can't help but crack up with some of the crazy shit he comes up with. So he's got jokes and I've got jokes.

Lubbins in all it's forms...random calls and letters...gifts and a helping hand...someone to cheer you on when you are about to make radical changes...someone to encourage you when life is mundane but has little details to attend to...someone just to be near and dear but cool and easy...god love, family love, friend love, food love, art love, work love.

Love Expressed.

Love Unexpressed...but always felt.

Love Always.

03 Feb 2007: Momeezie Birthdeezie...hahahahha

Momeezie Birthdeezie...hahahaha
Category: Blogging

Chocolate Ganache...it spins and swirls and you gotta rock it before it cools. Life is like that - plenty messy, absolutely deliscious and all about timing. Great timing will help you avoid the lumps and bumps. Recoknowdat...

Firstly...I want to say - I know I haven't written any blogs in awhile. I've been horrendously busy with work and totally captivated by my boyfriend. I will deny neither. However things have settled down and you will all be seeing more of me soon. I've been a grumpy saucy little cuss lately...so those getting bruised by my scathing glares - I am sorry. For those that deserve it - I'm not so sorry.

Secondly...I had a bad day the other day and I also needed new jeans and stuff coz all my pants are starting to look "dookie lodged" hahaha. So this morning I got up and did my Fuze drink and walked about the house and then Mom and Keyla came home and said what are you doing...I said going to the Outlets coz it's the closest - and Mom said I will take you. What's she mean she's takin ME? She doesn't drive - what she meant was - take me in your convertible. hahaha. If you all thought I am Baucy...you haven't met the REAL boss. They say the turd doesn't fall far from the bird - and they are RIGHT. haha.

So three pairs of pants later, a vest, some shoes, a dope tee, some more bottoms and tops...a belt...some flip flops and I dunno other stuff we were off again. All I have to say that it is the February winter clearances - if you have an outlet mall near you - take your asses there...we made out like bandits at BcBg, polo, emannuel Ungaro, Levi's, Rack Shoes, Hurley and Boss. I mean seriously - I don't have trunk space in the MINI or I never would have left.

...on the Birthday girl number 1...

Happy Birthday Mommy...you have loved us through thick and thin...through awards ceremonies and emergency rooms...as you say,"you have a PH.D in troubled youth...and can write many thesis' on it" So now you were gleaming proudly over our little brown faces - coz we got YOU dinner. hahahha.

En route to the restaurant Bobby Q...I was fiddlin' with the cam...and my sister was playin' a little e 40.... I was a bit tired after a full afternoon of shopping - but it was a great day off and well worth it.

My photo homage to Empress Wendizzle Lee. It might be fuzzy but it's still sleeveless...we only coat up for fashion here in the desert.

I wonder what my boyfriends doin? Oh he's working. Mom had invited Julian to dinner but as usual he's working...

The thought of barbecue is just too exciting. Hey Alfie...I included this pic so you could see my tokidoki in the bottom left of the pic - **laughs**

Keyla drivin' to the barbecue spot

Mom doin' her Ooooh - e Feezie style. hahahhaha.

Rommel, Benjo, Mom and Keyla

Errybody...I told the server to hold still but NOOOOO.

Benjo and Rommel

Rommel and Mom...Mom always looks a touch happier with our handsome brother in the picture. This buffed monster of a brother I have was actually a preemie at one time and they din't even think he'd make it. He is truly the apple of Mommy's eye and I'm so not mad about it. They say that when he was born his thigh was the size of a chicken leg.

Lookin' kinna gangsta there Mommy...

My plate: St Louis Style Ribs, Baby Back and Brisket. There are no sides...I had a large garden salad with Blue Cheese to start. Don't Laugh. This is very serious business...me and barbecue have a love affair.

Benjo with Brisket, double ribs, mac and cheese plus shoestring fries. Observe my brother in the back not even giving a DAMN about pictures coz he's cuttin' into some beef ribs, grilled veggies and double brisket. hahaha.

Keyla with her own variation on a theme...Yup I ate some of those fries

Oh you thought I was playin??? That is MY plate. The only plate that got cleaned and I was being handed random St. Louis Style ribs from other peoples plates coz they couldn't HANG. I told you - me and barbecue have a love affair and if it wouldn't of embarrassed my brother I would have ordered another rack and just ate it at a leisurely pace. Bwaa hahahhaha

After dinner they have the nerve to hand you a bag of HOT baby donuts as a "thank Q" Bwaa hahahhaa. I'm not really a carb fan - but I did eat one of those cinnamon snickerdoodle tasting donuts. So yummy.

Walkin' to the parkin' lot with our guts bustin...I said take a pic of us Keyla - coz we don't have a pic in front of the new car....WHY did everyone say SHHHHHHHHHuuuuuTTTTTUP dude...I'm like huh

Everyone says Mom thinks it's the same car - be quiet or we're all in for the Asian lecture. Bwaa hahahha. Mom looked at me when I got in the truck and I said Hey mom you want a piece of gum?...Whew.

Keyla put on some more E-Feezie...and I caught them in reflectorily just singin' it up. Hahahhaa - good times good times.

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...on Birthday Girl Number Deuce...

Happy Birthday to my other little Sister the Ube Princess...

I love you girl - get into somethin' Ignant in the Haystack...I wish we could have gone with you to the Carribean feast in the city. Stop blowin' those surprises that my wonderful brother in law tries to drop on your nosey ASS. Hopefully Julian and I will find our way to the Yay when we both aren't so busy Grinding...You are the maker of my first godchild and my fun ass nephews...but firstly you are my right hand when it comes to smooshin' icky faces that used to hit on us in all those San Diego Malls - Whaaat. hahhaha. Good Times...